I Have Learned

I 've learned that you cannot make someone love you.

All you can do is be someone who can be loved.

The rest is up to them.

I 've learned that no matter how much I care,

some people just don't care back.

I 've learned that it takes years to build up trust,

and only seconds to destroy it.

I 've learned that it 's not what you have in your life

but who you have in your life that counts.

I 've learned that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes.

After that, you'd better know something.

I 've learned that you shouldn't compare yourself to the best others

can do but to the best you can do.

I 've learned that it's not what happens to people that 's

important. It 's what they do about it.

I 've learned that you can do something in an instant

that will give you heartache for life.

I 've learned that no matter how thin you slice it,

there are always two sides.

I 've learned that it 's taking me a long time to become the

person I want to be.

I 've learned that it 's a lot easier to react than it is to think.

I 've learned that you should always leave loved ones with loving

words. It may be the last time you see them.

I 've learned that you can keep going long after

you think you can't.

I 've learned that we are responsible for what we do,

no matter how we feel.

I 've learned that either you control your attitude or it controls you.

I 've learned that regardless of how hot and steamy

a relationship is at first, the passion fades and

there had better be something else to take its place.

I 've learned that heroes are the people who do what

has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.

I 've learned that learning to forgive takes practice.

I 've learned that there are people who love you dearly,

but just don't know how to show it.

I 've learned that money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I 've learned that my best friend and I can do anything

or nothing and have the best time.

I 've learned that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when

you're down will be the ones to help you get back up.

I 've learned that sometimes when I 'm angry I have the

right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I 've learned that true friendship continues to grow,

even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.

I 've learned that just because someone doesn't love you the

way you want them to doesn't mean they don't love you

with all they have.

I''ve learned that maturity has more to do with what types

of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them

and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.

I 've learned that you should never tell a child their

dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more

humiliating and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.

I 've learned that your family won't always be there for you.

It may seem funny, but people you aren't related to can

take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again.

Families aren't biological.

I 've learned that no matter how good a friend is, they're going to

hurt you every once in a while.

I 've learned that we don't have to change friends if we

understand that friends change.

I 've learned that you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret.

It could change your life forever.

I 've learned that two people can look at the exact same thing

and see something totally different.

I 've learned that no matter how you try to protect

your children, they will eventually get hurt and you

will hurt in the process.

I 've learned that there are many ways of falling

and staying in love.

I 've learned that no matter the consequences, those who are

honest with themselves get farther in life.

I 've learned that no matter how many friends you have

if you are their pillar you will feel lonely and lost

at the times you need them most.

I 've learned that your life can be changed in a matter of

hours by people who don't even know you.

I 've learned that even when you think you have no more to give,

when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.

I 've learned that writing as well as talking can

ease emotional pain.

I 've learned that the paradigm we live in is not all that

is offered to us.

I 've learned that credentials on the wall do not make you

a decent human being.

I 've learned that the people you care most about in life are

taken from you too soon.

I 've learned that although the word "love" can have many

different meanings, it loses value when overly used.

I 've learned that it 's hard to determine where

to draw the line between being nice and

not hurting people's feelings and standing up for

what you believe.

~Author Unknown~